Two things had happened this week. One was my
birthday (not fishing for anything) and one of my friends broke up with his
girlfriend, making him the 4th person this month that faced same
fate. I have written in here once, about the togetherness and how we are never
really together. I explained; how the basic physics actually prevents us from
really touch each other. When we feel someone´s touch, we actually feel our
skin moving away from it and there is always some space left between the
surfaces of our skin. This is due to the negative charge of the skin surfaces
that push each other away. However, that is not the only thing that separates
us. We, in fact, are never really together even when we are in relationship
with someone. This seems as a harsh statement
to accept, especially in this society that was built up on the romantic
connotation of every relationship. However, it is true. There is no difference between
a relation to a person we choose and relation to any other person we´ve left neglected.
On the opposite side, in my last blog entry I talked about the energy packets
that make whole universe sustainable, so on the other hand, there are no limits
between us. We are all pervaded with the same juice making us like swimmers in
an endless energy sea that only gets denser with manifestation we call a body
or an object, let´s call it matter, to cover all the aspects of tangible
universe.
So, to return to “the abandoned”, since I have
been having almost the same conversation for the past month, I realized that
issues were all the same, feelings nothing different form a case to a case and
my advice always included these two sentences. “It is naturally to feel sad,
but you should stop dwelling in the thinking and over analyzing” and, “it´ll
all pass as everything does; as your relationship did, too.” All is meant to
pass away into nothingness, where it came from in the first place. And also, since it was my birthday, or to be
more specific, because of all the good wishes I got from my friends on Facebook
that inhibited the same idea that we are never together, but somehow connected
through space and time, I decided to talk about this before it becomes lukewarm
and the passion about this grows weaker. Although I think, it ever will.
